If someone doesn't approve of you, the way you are, you can perhaps try to change
some aspects of yourself in order to win their approval,
but chances are they'II just what they do.They just like to criticize.
So no matter what you do ,they're likely going to find some to criticize,
so forget about it, and even if you can win their approve, there's just going to be
someone else who doesn't approve, and you'II never please everyone.
So just allow others to have their opinion.You don't have to agree with them.
You don't have to accept what they say. AII whatever they want to think.
AII you're doing is respecting that freedom, and it's such a liberating thing when you
begin to do this, when you give up needing to have other people's approval or needing to
control what others think of you. You find your own freedom in that.