How to deal with the complicated interpersonal relationships always remains a major
worry for most of us . Wise words or books that aim to teach us to tackle this daunting
issue are,almost without exception,putting stress on mutual understanding and respect,the
significance of which seems self-evident. Mutual understanding requires us to put
ourselves in each other's place and be forgiving of others difficulties.By doing so,we
will become more easy-going and accessible,and thus more likely to avoid unnecessary
conflicts and frictions with others,a common trigger for a failed relationship.Mutual
respect--for privacy,lifestyles,hobbies,professions,opinions and the like--helps create
a friendly atmosphere that encourages us to share and exchange our ideas openly without
the fear of feeling offended. To sum up, this principle of socializing is certainly a
prerequisite for health and stable interpersonal relationships.Neglect of it will lead us
to end up being estranged estranged from, or even hostile to, each other.